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The Link Between Stress & Pain
The Link Between Stress and Chronic Pain
Many people think of stress as something mental—a racing mind, overwhelm, or anxiety. But the truth is, your body feels stress just as much as your mind does. Stomach aches, headaches, excessive sweating, fatigue, and sleeplessness—these are all physical manifestations of stress.
Stress can create pain or amplify the pain you’re already experiencing. And when stress sticks around, your body responds in ways that can keep you stuck in the pain cycle.
Stress Lives in the Body, Not Just the Mind
This isn’t in your head. It’s in your nervous system. Your body is trying to protect you.
How Stress and Pain Feed Each Other: Paper Tigers
When you’re constantly feeling stress or exposed to triggers, your nervous system shifts into sympathetic dominance—your “fight, flight, or freeze” mode. This system is meant to protect you in moments of danger. But when it’s stuck in the “on” position, it becomes a problem.
Ever heard of paper tigers? People who’ve experienced trauma or chronic stress often stay in this alert mode, reacting to both real threats and perceived threats. These “paper tigers” may not be dangerous—but your body still reacts as if they are.
What Happens in the Body During Sympathetic Dominance:
Muscles stay tense and rigid, ready for action
Blood flow is redirected away from healing and digestion
Breathing becomes shallow
Sleep is disrupted
Inflammation rises
Pain sensitivity increases
Even small things can hurt. And because your brain sees pain as a threat, it keeps amplifying those signals—locking you deeper into the loop. It traps you in one key stage of the pain cycle: Fear.
Stuck in the Loop: What the Pain Cycle Looks Like
You enter the Pain Cycle with a Pain experience. That initial pain triggers Fear—which leads to muscle guarding, isolation, and reduced movement. That lack of movement creates Weakness, reduced mobility, and more Stress. The emotional toll leads to Fatigue, which feeds right back into Pain.
Stress in this cycle can show up as:
Tension headaches
Neck and shoulder pain
Jaw clenching or TMJ
Low back pain
Digestive issues
Widespread aches that don’t respond to traditional treatments
Feeling Safe: Breaking the Cycle Starts with Awareness
When you understand how your nervous system works, you can start working with your body instead of against it. You can begin to feel safe again—physically and emotionally. And when your body feels safe, pain has a chance to release.
Pain is Protection, Not Damage
Here’s the part many people might not have been told: Pain isn’t always caused by injury.
Sometimes, pain is your brain trying to protect you from a perceived threat. And threats aren’t always physical—your brain may perceive stress, fear, or overwhelm the same as it does physical threats.
Think of a car alarm that goes off when there’s no real danger. That’s your nervous system, stuck on high alert. Those paper tigers again.
If you’ve done the tests, the scans, seen the specialists—and you still hurt—this could be why. Your nervous system is guarding. It just doesn’t know how to shut off.
3 Ways You Can Interrupt the Stress-Pain Cycle
You don’t have to wait for a perfect moment to start healing. Here are three ways to calm your nervous system and help your body reset:
1. Intentional Breathwork
Deep, slow breathing tells your brain you’re safe. Try box breathing:
Inhale for 4 → Hold for 4 → Exhale for 4 → Hold for 4.
Repeat for 2–5 minutes.
2. Gentle, Repetitive Movement
Movement soothes your system and encourages healing circulation. Try walking, dancing, rocking, swaying, or slow mobility exercises help discharge stored stress.
3. Grounding with Sensation
Bring your awareness back into your body. Try rubbing lotion into your hands, holding a warm cup of tea, or rolling a textured ball under your feet. This helps shift your body from panic into presence.
These aren’t magic fixes—but they are powerful tools to interrupt the pain-stress loop. The more you practice, the more your body learns that it’s safe to relax and heal.
You Don’t Have to Do It Alone
You can’t “push through” the pain cycle—but you can learn to move through it with the right tools and support.
Ready to Start Rewiring Your Pain Response?
We now offer online coaching for stress and pain self-management, in addition to our in-person recovery sessions at BodyTech.
Email us or visit bodytechnyc.com to book your consultation.
Sign up below to join our list to get updates and information
The Link Between Stress & Pain
The Link Between Stress and Chronic Pain
Many people think of stress as something mental—a racing mind, overwhelm, or anxiety. But the truth is, your body feels stress just as much as your mind does. Stomach aches, headaches, excessive sweating, fatigue, and sleeplessness—these are all physical manifestations of stress.
Stress can create pain or amplify the pain you’re already experiencing. And when stress sticks around, your body responds in ways that can keep you stuck in the pain cycle.
Stress Lives in the Body, Not Just the Mind
This isn’t in your head. It’s in your nervous system. Your body is trying to protect you.
How Stress and Pain Feed Each Other: Paper Tigers
When you’re constantly feeling stress or exposed to triggers, your nervous system shifts into sympathetic dominance—your “fight, flight, or freeze” mode. This system is meant to protect you in moments of danger. But when it’s stuck in the “on” position, it becomes a problem.
Ever heard of paper tigers? People who’ve experienced trauma or chronic stress often stay in this alert mode, reacting to both real threats and perceived threats. These “paper tigers” may not be dangerous—but your body still reacts as if they are.
What Happens in the Body During Sympathetic Dominance:
Muscles stay tense and rigid, ready for action
Blood flow is redirected away from healing and digestion
Breathing becomes shallow
Sleep is disrupted
Inflammation rises
Pain sensitivity increases
Even small things can hurt. And because your brain sees pain as a threat, it keeps amplifying those signals—locking you deeper into the loop. It traps you in one key stage of the pain cycle: Fear.
Stuck in the Loop: What the Pain Cycle Looks Like
You enter the Pain Cycle with a Pain experience. That initial pain triggers Fear—which leads to muscle guarding, isolation, and reduced movement. That lack of movement creates Weakness, reduced mobility, and more Stress. The emotional toll leads to Fatigue, which feeds right back into Pain.
Stress in this cycle can show up as:
Tension headaches
Neck and shoulder pain
Jaw clenching or TMJ
Low back pain
Digestive issues
Widespread aches that don’t respond to traditional treatments
Feeling Safe: Breaking the Cycle Starts with Awareness
When you understand how your nervous system works, you can start working with your body instead of against it. You can begin to feel safe again—physically and emotionally. And when your body feels safe, pain has a chance to release.
Pain is Protection, Not Damage
Here’s the part many people might not have been told: Pain isn’t always caused by injury.
Sometimes, pain is your brain trying to protect you from a perceived threat. And threats aren’t always physical—your brain may perceive stress, fear, or overwhelm the same as it does physical threats.
Think of a car alarm that goes off when there’s no real danger. That’s your nervous system, stuck on high alert. Those paper tigers again.
If you’ve done the tests, the scans, seen the specialists—and you still hurt—this could be why. Your nervous system is guarding. It just doesn’t know how to shut off.
3 Ways You Can Interrupt the Stress-Pain Cycle
You don’t have to wait for a perfect moment to start healing. Here are three ways to calm your nervous system and help your body reset:
1. Intentional Breathwork
Deep, slow breathing tells your brain you’re safe. Try box breathing:
Inhale for 4 → Hold for 4 → Exhale for 4 → Hold for 4.
Repeat for 2–5 minutes.
2. Gentle, Repetitive Movement
Movement soothes your system and encourages healing circulation. Try walking, dancing, rocking, swaying, or slow mobility exercises help discharge stored stress.
3. Grounding with Sensation
Bring your awareness back into your body. Try rubbing lotion into your hands, holding a warm cup of tea, or rolling a textured ball under your feet. This helps shift your body from panic into presence.
These aren’t magic fixes—but they are powerful tools to interrupt the pain-stress loop. The more you practice, the more your body learns that it’s safe to relax and heal.
You Don’t Have to Do It Alone
You can’t “push through” the pain cycle—but you can learn to move through it with the right tools and support.
Ready to Start Rewiring Your Pain Response?
We now offer online coaching for stress and pain self-management, in addition to our in-person recovery sessions at BodyTech.
Email us or visit bodytechnyc.com to book your consultation.
Sign up below to join our list to get updates and information
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